West confuses sexual orientation with gender orientation

Classifying a masculine guy as 'gay' and putting him on the same platform as 'queers'

The poster of this video (a gay male) had this to say: A masculine homosexual man, divorced from his opposite-sex spouse, talks about his life of self-deception and the anguish that it wrought.

COMMENT FROM NATURAL MANHOOD SITE:
There're three things about this video that is bothering:
1 That in the West, they talk about a man's sexual interest in men as something that happens only to a few men, & its something that they have to 'discover'.
2 That men have to leave the mainstream masculine 'straight' space and be labelled queer 'gay', when apparently they can only be described as 'straight'. and that this straight guy has to share the same platform as queers (see those limp wristed gays) as one of them, not one of the straights.
And that a 'gay' has posted this video describing him as 'gay'.
3)That queers posting on this forum exploit this vulnerability of western men, and make deliberate but inappropriate fun of these masculine men, like by saying, "I don't find him all that masculine". I mean if this isn't masculine, nothing is.